Buy this book now: I Remember by Joe Brainard.

(I don’t suggest borrowing it from the library, because you will want to pull it out next week, in five years, when you’re staring at a blank computer screen or journal page; it’s a tiny book, so it won’t take up too much space on your bookshelf, after all.)

This book is a delight to read. And this book holds the key to writer’s block.

Brainard’s memories, recounted in a stream-of-consciousness fashion, are short and pointed, often mere phrases or single sentences, occasionally a brief paragraph, each beginning “I remember...”:

“I remember the only time I ever saw my mother cry. I was eating apricot pie.

“I remember how much I cried seeing South Pacific (the movie) three times.

“I remember how good a glass of water can taste after a dish of ice cream.

“I remember when I got a five-year pin for not missing a single morning of Sunday School for five years. (Methodist.)”

As Ron Padgett writes in the book’s afterword, “Few people can read this book and not feel like grabbing a pencil to start writing their own parallel versions.” Indeed. “It is one of the few literary forms that even non-literary people can use.”

The two-word prompt that never fails

Like many before me, I was first introduced to Joe Brainard’s book in a weekend writing workshop with memoirist Dani Shapiro. She read some snippets out loud and I was immediately enlivened. Our assignment: to write nonstop for 10 minutes, finishing the sentence “I remember…” over and over with no concern for chronology or connectedness.

As she describes, “When I give that exercise at retreats, I look out from where I’m sitting at a sea of people, and not one of them hesitates. Those are extremely evocative words.”

“I remember.”

Those are the words Shapiro calls evocative.

And they are the words that form her (and my) favorite writing prompt: “I remember…” is a steadfast prompt, an old friend that can be pulled out and used often, always to new effect.

As Padgett writes, “Even the smallest [memory] can exert a mysterious tug, and when it is clearly recalled it can release a flood of other memories.”

Your turn: Start writing using the prompt “I remember…”

“Memory is just this storage locker of incredibly rich material and we often can’t get at it when we’re trying to remember something or thinking in some chronological way or straining and reaching,” Shapiro said on an episode of her now defunct Facebook Series, “Office Hours.”

“Where we can really get to it is on the page, following the line of words, and allowing associations to pile one on top of the other.”

So, grab a pen and start writing.

• don’t discriminate against memories that seem meaningless or small

• don’t worry about making connections between one memory and another

• don’t stop until your 10 minutes are up.

Some remembrances will be short and specific. Here are two of mine:

“I remember patent leather black shoes with one scuff on the toe.”

“I remember drinking Diet Coke nonstop when I worked at Vogue. My production assistants swore I needed an IV drip of caffeine. One of them berated me for buying cups of ice from the bodega for a dollar.”

Other remembrances will be more profound, perhaps longer, such as this one from Brainard:

“I remember having a friend overnight, and lots of giggling after the lights are out. And seemingly long silences followed by ’Are you asleep yet?’ and, sometimes, some pretty serious discussions about God and Life.”

Let your mind wander—no restrictions—and your pen will follow. You’ll be surprised by what bubbles up.

“People almost invariably find memories that they didn’t know that they had,” Shapiro said in an interview with Marie Forleo about this exercise.

“We don’t tell ourselves stories in our heads. We have these disparate memories that don’t connect. And when we allow them to be associative and to bounce one off the next, it creates all sorts of interesting material.”

Who should give this writing prompt a try?

Personally, I think the simple phrase “I remember…” as a springboard for writing has universal appeal. It’s fun, it’s alluring, and it’s easy.

It may be especially beneficial for certain people, though.

This writing exercise is good for:

• helping you open the floodgates of memory when you feel stuck

• warming up at the beginning of a writing session—putting pen to paper and having a relatively easy task (simply finishing the sentence “I remember…”)

• brainstorming memories: Without the pressure of remembering something specific, your list will inevitably be diverse and surprising—providing fodder for a future memoir or personal essay.

So if you’d like to discover the power of short reminiscence, and emulate it to create your own list of prompts for future development, well, I Remember is the book for you..

Note: This is an unsolicited review of a book I purchased at full price. I did not receive any compensation or free products in exchange, and any endorsements within this post are my own.

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P.S. I’d love to hear some of your reflections. What are a few of your favorite things you wrote using the writing prompt “I remember…”? Share in the comments or shoot me an email!