Life Story Links: July 26, 2022
“If you don’t see that your story matters, chances are no one else will either. So even though it isn’t always easy, it’s important for you to find the strength to share your truth. Because the world needs to hear it.”
—Michelle Obama
What we pass down
FAMILY PICTURES
“Most photographs you come across have stories—you just don’t know them. I actually believe that the more that’s known about what a photograph shows, the more likely it is to survive.” Michael Johnston on the secret art of the family photo.
A MATRIARCH’S LEGACY
“This is the story of an heirloom that isn’t.” How a portrait of Jill Lepore’s Italian grandmother was lost and found and passed on to a new generation.
Memoir explorations
STUCK, FOR NOW
Last week I wrote about how I have been struggling with my own memoir writing, plus a three-step plan for a reset so I—and others struggling with project overwhelm—can get back on track.
QUESTIONS OF DESCENT
When the results of a DNA test change the family tree: Two new memoirs probe stories of uprooted identities, family origins, and uncovered secrets.
A KALEIDOSCOPE INTO A LIFE
“Memoir is always, it seems to me, a mix of power and vulnerability. You have the power of claiming the story and of claiming your interpretation of every part of it. And yet you are exposing.” Memoirist Margo Jefferson in conversation about the form.
WEAVING STORIES, UNRAVELING LEGACIES
When researching her ancestry in Colombia proves futile, Ingrid Rojas Contreras “relies instead on oral history, ultimately embracing its messy, unverifiable and disjointed nature” to write her memoir.
NARRATIVE MEDICINE
“These young doctors needed to tell their stories to one another. To process the significance of what they were doing every day, to reckon with the feelings that they were coming home with every night.” Jerome Groopman on Jay Wellons’s memoir, All That Moves Us, and why storytelling is part of being a good doctor.
Preserving pieces of the past
FADING FROM LIVING MEMORY
“You don’t need to tell people the entire narrative of the Holocaust, you just need the story of one victim to pass on with love.” Now is a “critical time” in preserving memories of Shoah’s survivors.
SECRET INGREDIENTS: PARIKA AND MEMORIES
“It’s the sweet burden of my origins and the everlasting loving memories of my grandmothers” that inspire Tibor Rosenstein, a Holocaust survivor, to preserve the legacy of Jewish-Hungarian cuisine in Budapest.
THE FUTURE OF THE PAST
An array of new artificial intelligence tools and memory-preservation programs “might change the way we collect history”—are they creepy or cool?
...and a few more links
Language, Please is “a living resource for all journalists and storytellers seeking to thoughtfully cover evolving social, cultural and identity related issues.”
A rare look at postwar Korea emerges from long-lost photos
Guidelines for writers giving feedback on work that discusses personal trauma
“Who Do You Think You Are?” has returned with new episodes on NBC.
Short Takes